When was the last time you did something simply because it felt good? Not because it was productive. Or good for your fitness. Or something another person needed from you. Perhaps you lingered in a warm bath. Danced to a song you love. Asked your partner to stroke your back, then gave yourself time to enjoy it. For many of us, pleasure comes after everything else is done. Which means it can wait a very long time. :) We take care of responsibilities, solve problems, and make s

What is unique about my Holistic Intimacy Coaching style? ​ I am a huge believer that the only way to learn in the area of intimacy and sex is to experience, practice, and make mistakes (hopefully in a safe environment)! My coaching and conscious touch practicum sessions are based on creating safe and effective ways for you to do that. Touch, breathing techniques, movement, visualization, and Tantric connection exercises are excellent ways to gain experience, create new brain

A Letter from a Woman to Her Lover Inspired by conversations with women who feel their desire slipping away… Dear man, You ask why I don’t want to have sex anymore. You wonder if I’ve lost attraction to you, if something’s off with my libido, or if maybe life’s just too stressful. But if that were true—wouldn’t sex help me unwind? Here’s the thing… We’re from different planets, remember? Even if it’s hard to believe right now… I miss sex. I love sex. But only a certain kind…