This past Friday, I had the pleasure of leading a live Zoom presentation: “3 Keys to Flourishing Intimacy.” . It was a beautiful...

Dear couples, Sometimes people come to me wondering whether they’ve waited too long. It has been years since they enjoyed being physical together. They’ve tried therapy, read books, listened to podcasts. They care about each other, but they don’t know what else to try. Others are curious, but hesitant. “Would this feel awkward?” “Are we too old for Tantra?” “What if we discover that one of us wants something the other doesn’t?” And sometimes the question is simply: “Can anyth

Dear man, If your partner says yes to sex, you probably assume she wants it. She may! But sometimes there is more to the answer. “I don’t want him to feel rejected.” “It’s easier than having another conversation about it.” “I’m not really interested, but I don’t want to disappoint him.” This doesn’t mean you should start doubting every yes. A woman can enjoy sex often and be very clear about wanting it. But can your partner also tell you when she doesn’t want it? Being able t