Relationships are like flowers. They need care! Just like flowers need sun and nourishment, relationships need consistent attention. Most couples don’t think this way and therefore do not create time for that. They rely on their relationship to "just be," and inevitably get heartbroken when they start to crumble. Or they might even feel they do give their relationship enough attention. A kiss before work, a conversation over dinner, watching something together in the evening.

What does sex look like after 10… 20, 30, 40 years together? Some days, you’re tired and want nothing. Some days, you feel anxious and want sex to feel alive again. Sometimes, something completely unrelated to your relationship turns you on. Or turns you off... There are moments when all you want is to be held… and then it might—or might not—turn into something more. And there are moments when you notice your partner hasn’t initiated in a while, and suddenly you want reassura

This past Friday, I had the pleasure of leading a live Zoom presentation: “3 Keys to Flourishing Intimacy.” . It was a beautiful...