There is a communication issue that comes up with almost every couple I work with. It is universal, and it is sneaky. It is the difficulty of connecting to what you actually want and turning it into a clear request (or a “clean ask,” as one of my couples likes to call it). If it sounds easy, think again. When was the last time you made a request about something that truly mattered to you? Asking for what we really want is one of the most vulnerable places we can go. Because t

Every relationship needs regular care. Just like our bodies need food and movement, our love needs daily attention. And yet most couples...

What does sex in a relationship look like after 3, 5, 10, 20, 30, 40 years? If love and respect are still there? It looks just like...

This past Friday, I had the pleasure of leading a live Zoom presentation: “3 Keys to Flourishing Intimacy.” . It was a beautiful...

Two people in intimacy are like two different flowers. One flower thrives in sunshine —emotional connection, warmth, shared presence. The...

Dear couples, I want to tell you about my clients—people of all ages and stages of life. Sometimes they come to me as a last resort....